Few years ago I read a book about a Palestinian doctor losing three of his daughters and his niece during Israel's attack to Gaza on January 16, 2009. They were at their home when an Israeli tank shell hit their house and killed them. The book title was "
I Shall Not Hate: A Gaza Doctor's Journey". This is an incredible story of forgiveness and hope for future. After losing his three daughters, Bissan, Mayar and Aya, and his niece, Noor,
Dr. Abuelaish goes against revenge and hate. He believes forgiveness is the key element of bringing peace to that region and avoiding similar losses in future (for more see
here).
After reading this book I was curious to see how other families in that region react to similar tragedies. I read the novel "
To the End of the Land" which is about a mother of a soldier serving in Israel's army and awaiting his son's return.
David Grossman started writing this novel when his son was serving in the army and finishes the novel when his other son loses his life fighting in Lebanon. The mother in the novel leaves the city and goes on a hiking trip, hoping that not being at home will stop the arrival of the bad news.
Another book I read recently was "
The General's Son: Journey of an Israeli in Palestine". Miko Peled starts the book by talking about his family and his father, an Israeli general who fought in 1948 and 1967 wars. He then talks about the tragic loss of his niece, Smadar, to a suicide bombing in Jerusalem in 1997, when two young Palestinians blew themselves up. She was thirteen years old. This tragedy sets him on a path to understand why those two young Palestinians decided to kill themselves and others. He starts by participation in Israeli and Palestinian discussion groups in San Diego for few years before traveling to West Bank and Gaza. One of the people he meets on West Bank is called Bassam. Two years after they first meet, on January 16 of 2007, an Israeli soldier shots Bassam's 10 year old daughter, Abir, while she was walking home from school.
Unfortunately there are more stories like these than there should be.
Bereaved Families for Peace is a group of Israeli and Palestinian families that have lost loved ones and are promoting peace and tolerance to stop this from happening to others.